Chic Industrial Glam Wedding in High Point, NC

Khadija and Robert’s relationship started out as a teenage love affair. Although they attended different high schools, they both ended up joining a summer track team for an AAU club. They soon became best friends and would often train together during the summer. Robert eventually asked Khadija to be his escort for the homecoming parade, and it was the start of a lifelong romance.

Robert planned the perfect proposal during a fun night out with friends. To celebrate his friend’s birthday, Robert and Khadija attended a small dinner and then went to a salsa club with more dancing afterward. By the end of the night, the DJ was playing “Matrimony” by Wale, and he asked the women at Khadija’s table to come to the dance floor. Next thing you know, Robert walked out, gave a speech, and then got down on one knee to pop the question. What made it even more special was that they were surrounded by all of their close friends who had been on this journey with them since high school!

Their bohemian, rustic wedding was the epitome of chic. Pampas grass and a muted color scheme of ivory, tan and black perfectly complemented their industrial venue with its high ceilings, exposed brick, metal piping, and vintage wood flooring. All eyes were on Khadija as she stunned in a form-fitting Victorian-style gown by Galia Lahav. There was so much visual fabulousness at their wedding, but Khadija’s favorite moment was quite subtle. She shares, “Our first dance was my favorite. Looking into my husband’s eyes and just dancing the night away will always be ingrained in my memories.”

See all of the details from their chic industrial glam wedding, which was featured in our Winter 2021 magazine, below.

Couple: Khadija & Robert Butler
Occupations: AVP Sr. Financial Analyst (Bride) & Computer Programmer (Groom)
Wedding date: February 16, 2020
Wedding location: High Point, NC

Quick Facts

Bridesmaids and groomsmen gifts: Bridesmaids- I put together gift bags with custom cards & notes, makeup, and accessories like necklaces and bracelets. In addition the MOHs received personalized items to fit their personality. Grooms- Personalized whiskey glasses
Gifts for one another: Bride- I love memorable items so the groom got me an engraved necklace with our wedding date to commemorate the day. Groom- He’s a collector of lapel pins, so I got him a custom lapel pin with a picture of his father who passed away a few years ago. We were looking for a way to incorporate his late father into our day and we wanted something that was unique to the groom. It was special to see him wear this personalized pin throughout our wedding day and to remind us that his father is always with us.
Ceremony entrance song: Maxwell- This Woman’s Work
First dance song: Mash-up of Ariana Grande- The Way & Ed Sheeran- Kiss Me

Did you incorporate any culture into your wedding?

If yes, tell us more. Jumping the broom has been a tradition that’s been passed down in our community, I always knew I wanted this to be a part of our special day as it symbolizes a new beginning for the couple. One of my best friend’s mothers heard that I wanted to incorporate this into the wedding and immediately offered to design us something that we could keep forever. It was a gorgeous white lace-wrapped broom with pearls and jewels on the handle. It was a wonderful tradition that we had and I cannot wait to give the broom to my future daughter in hopes that she’ll use it on her special day.

What is your best memory from your wedding?

Our first dance was my favorite, looking into my husband’s eyes and just dancing the night away will always be ingrained in my memories. If you ask him, he’ll tell you that I love to dance with him even if it’s just in our living room with no music. We had a wonderful reception and enjoyed everyone helping us to celebrate that special night.

What is the best wedding advice you can give to engaged couples?

Seek out pre-marital counseling and don’t sweat the little stuff. Both can help with stress from planning a wedding and give you peace of mind during this exciting but new transition.